I haven't finished talking it out completely with the guys; we've pretty much just hit the high points, but I think what we are going to do about the porn is probably this. We are going to keep the porn on the other server where it is now, and build a lovely site, still password protected, that is just for us. We'll upload to it whatever we want, and share whatever we want to share, and take delight in it as our own thing, like a private journal.

Then, sometime in the future, how far off I cannot say, we can ask ourselves again if we want to share. If we decide to, we can start letting people in, quietly letting them come see our own private little world.

Then, if that goes well and we wish to, we can add a members section and charge a little something for it, and keep going.

We do know what we don't want. I personally do not want a splash page that says something like, "Cum see me fuck and suck - cumshots, facials, blah blah. I'm such a little slut!" I do not want to be degraded. We generally don't want a bunch of banner ads, and we don't want to get sucked into a sleazy social scene. We don't want to be reduced to another blip of static among the tons and tons of sites out there on the net. We don't want to become dependent on the cash flow, or enslaved to haveing sex on demand. And we don't want me fired from my current job.

If we do it as anything other than a sideline or hobby, I think it would enslave us, and I most certainly do not want that. I just want to have fun with my lovers.

I will keep posting tasteful nudes here from time to time though, when it strikes me. 

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